One of my favorite blogs to read
is also one of the very first blogs I ever started following. I have read every
single post Kelly from Kelly’s Korner Blog has posted since January 2008.
Crazy!
Recently Kelly
posted an amazing topic inviting people to talk about the differences stemming
from where they live – ie, what people call things, what they eat, how they
talk, what they refer to – and how it differs from state to state.
I read almost every single
comment (nearly 500 total!) and was DYING. I had no idea that some of the
things people were mentioning even EXISTED!
As many of you know, I went to
the University of Arizona for college and though Tucson
is a mere 500 miles away from Los
Angeles, I met people there who could easily have been
from another world. Almost every single one of my best friends is from the
South – places like Memphis and Houston
and Dallas and Mountain
Brook and Austin and Charleston and New Orleans
and Shreveport,
places I never expected to visit in my lifetime!
Now, of course, I consider myself
an honorary southerner :)
I drink sweet tea and say “y’all!” I’ve been to rodeos and the Texas State Fair
and have visited Tennessee, Texas,
Louisiana, Mississippi,
and Arkansas.
I have eaten chicken fried steak and grilled oysters and real barbeque (wet AND
dry) and po boys and sausage on a stick – foods you just don’t see over here.
I remember being in college and
learning all these crazy things that they ALL knew about and I had never even
heard of. I had never eaten queso (cheese dip) or went “muddin’” – which is
when you drive your truck into a super muddy field and then go to school with
your truck all filthy and dirty. I didn’t know what cow-tipping was (umm… which
is when you and your friends go into a field and literally tip a cow over on
its side…) I had a friend who had a gun rack in his car, for God’s sake.
Because Gerrick’s wedding is
literally just days away we’ve been talking a LOT about southern weddings. Did ya’ll
know that in the south it’s a tradition to take bridal portraits before the
wedding? That’s right, the bride gets her hair and makeup done and gets all
dressed up in her gown and takes photos with her photographer – just of
herself! Her fiancée is not involved at all! And then she displays a photo AT
the wedding! I had NEVER heard of this before Gerrick told me about it.
Also new to me? House parties and
grooms cakes. In the south, in addition to the bridesmaids in the bridal party,
brides ask close friends to serve as the “house party” – basically female
ushers. They come to the bachelorette party and walk down the aisle, but they
don’t have to wear bridesmaid dresses. And grooms cakes are VERY southern – in addition
to the big fancy wedding cake, the bride surprises the groom with a smaller
cake that’s decorated like something he lives – usually his favorite sports
team, I think. NEVER heard of that before I met my friends either!(Don't worry Mom, I am planning on getting bridal portraits taken and I will certainly have a groom's cake AND a house party!)
I feel like I’m rambling…but I just
think it is too funny the differences between states. I have learned SO MUCH
from my friends and I like to think that I’ve taught them things too :) I’m
curious if you have had any experiences like mine? Do you have friends who are
completely different from you who have taught you new things?
that's too funny!
ReplyDeleteXo Megan
I'm not southern but we had a groom's cake at our wedding- I actually assumed everyone did that! Maybe some of my extended family's Tennessee roots have more effect than I imagined. This is a great post!
ReplyDeleteVeralynn
joiedeveralynn.blogspot.com
wow, really interesting. i guess that i'ma southern girl?! -- weird never considered my that! -- i know about all of those things. curious to check out this other blog!!
ReplyDeleteon "Don't Be Tardy for the Wedding" on Bravo, Kim made a groom cake for Kroy of his dog. He is from Montana.
ReplyDeletenow i am embarrassed.